by Jill Morrison, Senior Counsel
National Women’s Law Center
This story about tragic endings to two teen pregnancies in Texas really hits home. One 14-year-old girl miscarried in an airplane bathroom on a school trip, and another, also 14, delivered her baby in the school bathroom.
It just so happens that the teenaged girls I love most in the whole wide world live in Texas (hey Dara and Jada!). They are surrounded by caring and supportive adults, and are a phone call, text message or email away from an aunt who happens to know a little something about matters of reproduction (ahem!). I can only hope that they will never feel so alone in the world as to put their lives at risk. They are getting the information they need to make healthy choices, but they don’t get it at school. Why? Because Texas requires schools to stress abstinence.
When young women (and men) are denied basic information about preventing pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, they are not only placed at risk of the dangers so aptly illustrated by the Texas cases. The abstinence-only message also tells teens that they should be ashamed and fearful when they do have sex (and yes, teens do have sex). While these incidents are shocking, can we really be surprised that these girls didn’t reach out for help?
What can you do? First, make sure the young people in your life know that you love them without judgment. Second, see if young people in your community are getting the information they need at http://www.siecus.org/. And most importantly, support comprehensive sex education.
P.S. to my awesome sister and brother-in-law:
You both moved far, far away, so I can’t hang out with my nieces every week. That’s okay, but you two could at least have had the decency to move to some place like California, where they have comprehensive sex ed.